Do you feel that even after pouring so much into other people, you still do not feel valued and abundant in your relationships and life?
There is a reason why this happens and I will give you a secret to SHIFT that so you can attract what you deeply desire...
Did you grow up feeling responsible emotionally for other people's well-being?
Did you feel like you had the superpower to somehow 'save' people from their own struggles and really care about how they feel?
As though caring to that level is seen as a good thing, this level of care for others is the exact reason why you now struggle to care for yourself and your needs first
Because you were emotionally neglected as a child, now you feel unworthy and selfish when it comes to prioritising yourself and having what you truly desire in life
You constantly self-sabotage
When things start to get better, something will happen
It's like a cycle you can't break out of
When you grow up feeling like you're responsible for everybody else you will likely attract relationships where you feel like you need to walk on eggshells
Or at least that's how you will feel because you'll be afraid to speak up
Conflict is not something you deal well with
You will reinforce a pattern when it's okay to come second and be silent about your needs
You will always be tuned to their emotions and how they are feeling and do the best you can to avoid upsetting or disappointing them
That is just so normal to you that you think you're doing out of love
But in reality, you're doing it out of fear
And this pattern runs your life, your work and your ability to feel fulfilled and invite more abundance in
Because success does not come from people-pleasing
It comes from self-pleasing, from a sense of value and respect for oneself first
You see reality as you see yourself
When you're lacking your own love and standards, life will mirror that to you in your relationships, in your bank account and your wellbeing
And that is not punishment
That is an opportunity to say I've had enough and choose differently, choose better
Simply because you can 😉
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My 5-minute tapping session for self-love can be an empowering quick start for you: You can do it here
Ready to receive 1:1 support to release the patterns hindering your sense of value and open up to the abundance your soul is ready to experience?
When life then becomes aligned with your deepest pleasures and desires.
When your choices are no longer out of fear but out of possibilities.
This is your calling for more 📞
Get in touch here to learn more about how I can personally guide you towards your happiest and most successful life!
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